Good Morning!
I’ve been trying to post something for over a month now. My most recent attempt (current section excluded) is a decent, if melancholy, bit of writing I did on New Year’s Eve…Eve. I don’t want to just dump that, so I’ll include it at the end of what I’m putting together right now. I’m currently watching AEW Collision, because I was out of town for my little sister’s baby shower -- she’s expecting the first kid of our generation, the first grandchild for my mom. Dad missed little Dani by just a couple years, but she probably wouldn’t have that cool name if Mr. Dan was still around, so I guess that’s the way of it, as Kermit once told us. Life is full of comings and goings.
But being away from things, and diving back into both my house responsibilities and social media has given me a little perspective. I don’t know when we decided we weren’t going to have fun watching wrestling anymore, or when we decided that people who watch the show we don’t like are bad people. And I have seen people on BlueSky post that if you post about WWE, you’re dead to them. Well, I’m gonna keep watching the little TV shows I like. That means AEW Dynamite, Collision, and pay-per-views, but it also means I’m watching RAW and WWE PLEs because I have for the better part of my life, and because I would like to make another go at the professional version of this blog.
I don’t owe anyone an explanation for that, but I will offer up one anyway. I’m aware that people with politics different from my own run that company; I’m also aware that I’m going to be dealing with people with politics different from my own in everyday life for the rest of my time here in the United States, and on Earth for that matter. Even putting that aside, I was lucky enough to get a job, a paying job, writing about pro wrestling for a legit wrestling website because of this blog. If I don’t discuss the biggest wrestling company in the world, during one of the most monumental times in its history, I’m not doing my reader(s?) any favors, and I’m not making myself informed enough to get another job if somebody is hiring. So I’ll keep watching the shows, and I’ll keep writing about them, and hopefully you all keep reading what I have to say. And if not, well, I’ll miss you and we probably had some fun interactions, but you do you.
Speaking of perspective, I experienced another little epiphany while I was in Tennessee. I’m gonna have to start treating myself a little nicer. I have let myself fall into, let’s say disrepair since I started writing. I know everybody says this in January, but it feels pretty important that I get a little healthier if I’m gonna be an uncle. This kid is gonna need all the support she can get -- every kid does -- and I won’t do her any good if I’m not around. Plus, as the oldest of three I technically knew her grandpa longer than either of my sisters, so I’m gonna need to share all the memories of our dad with the kid.
Aside from spending a little more time outside and a little less time on social media, I’m gonna need to eat a little better and sit on my ass a little less. Fortunately, I have a wife who encourages me to be a better version of myself, a treadmill in the basement, and a TV in front of said treadmill. I should try watching wrestling on that thing so I’m moving while I watch this goofy, incredible sport.
The Wrestling Portion Of Our Program
All that being said, a LOT has happened in wrestling since last we spoke. AEW has made its much-rumored switch to smaller venues, and I think it’s been successful. The buildings it has chosen look incredible, and the smaller capacity means packed-looking houses rather than cavernous buildings with large swaths of seats tarped off. The verticality of these places is cool too -- seeing a wall of fans makes me happy.
WWE made its Netflix debut, and it was … well, I guess it was what we should have expected. A lot of “hey look how great we are here’s famous people” and not a lot of actual wrestling in over three hours of programming. We did get a full stadium booing noted turd Hulk Hogan, so that was pretty dope. And since the debut episode, things have evened out and the shows since have hit a nice 2 ½ hour mark. I still think two hours is perfect for a weekly pro wrestling show, and some RAW episodes feel even longer than three, but so far the Netflix thing is working for Triple H and company.
Obviously we will have a lot to talk about in the coming weeks. AEW continues to push its Death Riders angle despite me not liking it. That’s not the same as saying that it’s BAD -- it’s just not for me. I have a lot of (possibly misplaced) faith in AEW, and I’d really like to come around on Mox and pals. We do have some big shows coming up in Australia, and even next week in Jacksonville. Things will progress, and maybe we’ll get a better idea of who will step up to the Riders with Darby climbing a mountain and Hobbs getting kinda pushed aside by Adam Copeland.
Toni Storm’s angle is cool as hell, though, and even if I didn’t like anything else on Dynamite I would still tune in just for her.
WWE has Saturday Night’s Main Event coming up this weekend, and I think I’d like to write a full-on preview for that. I do love a preview and/or review, and it’s a nice way to separate my random banter blogs from my show focused ones. Hell, maybe that means people who like my writing but not my choice of programming can read the stuff that they DO like. WHO SAYS NO?
Oh damn, the Acclaimed breakup FINALLY happened as I’m writing/watching! Sure, the team hasn’t been super over in months, but better late than never! I’m really interested to see if Bowens gets the push a lot of us have hoped for, and what happens with Billy Gunn and Max Caster, too. There are a lot of directions all three men could go, and while The Hurt Business felt like the right direction a few weeks ago, some unaffiliated singles work could also be fun.
So Long For Now
So that’s gonna be where I wrap things up for right now. I intend on doing that preview for SNME, along with the Royal Rumble and maybe the AEW Grand Slam Australia show too? I hate to commit to doing a lot when I’ve taken this long just to get this far, so I think I’ll just take it one week at a time. Thanks for reading this far!
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As promised, the work I did from late last year follows. I think it is worth posting, even if it may not be as important to me as it was at the time I wrote it.
12/30/2024
There’s always a reason. It’s not necessarily a good reason, but when I wander away and take a break there’s always a reason. The holidays can be stressful, but I try not to let them get to me. I miss a lot of people (and a pet) I’ve lost over the last few years, but I generally remain upbeat. My household gets a little stressful, but that’s just part of living with someone else -- they have different opinions on how Christmas should be celebrated, and their history with the holidays can have a striking effect on how they feel, and act, and just are during November, December, and January.
All that is to say, I personally have been having a bit of a rough go of things, too. I always get introspective at the end of the year, and the ten minutes a day of sunlight we’re getting doesn’t exactly fill me with the energy I have in other months. I’ve been looking to cut back, to save a little more, and, yes, to try and get a little healthier. I’m not getting any younger, and now that I’m gonna be an uncle in 2025 it feels imperative that I, you know, live long enough to help raise this kid right, i.e. show them some wrestling.
I’ve closed the Ko-Fi donation link that, honestly, hasn’t shown up most of the time anyways. I’m not writing consistently enough to ask anyone for money, and I felt like I was letting the one guy with a monthly sub down. I appreciate the hell outta you, Ricky, and I’m sorry I couldn’t keep up with your stream, either.
I think part of my problem has been that I got real lucky when I started out. Writing has never been a true passion of mine in the way I know it is for a lot of people. But it is nice to talk about stuff I love, and since social media is a dumpster fire and I can only tell my wife about what happened on the night’s TV before her innocent eyes glaze over, blogging became the next best outlet. I enjoyed it, and that miraculously led to a short career writing Features for a real, legit website.
Unfortunately, I guess the numbers weren’t supportive of a whole Features section, so we closed down about eight months after we started. I was, again, lucky enough to have an editor suggest me to a sister site of ours, and my relationship with SlashGear was born. And that’s fun, and researching products and writing lists while trying to shoehorn in some of that Midwest humor that burns in my heart is a good gig, and they even pay me in money. But I don’t have a deep love for that stuff, just an interest and the willingness to pound out an article or two a week so I don’t feel like a freeloader.
So my luck didn’t run out, per se -- I mean, I’m living a pretty blessed life these days -- but it certainly stopped being a motivator. I don’t feel great, in part due to a far more sedentary lifestyle but also just because I, well, don’t. I don’t know or care if I’m clinically sad or whatever, and I’m not about to figure that out in an official capacity. But
Because that’s right -- I’m a true house cholo. I cook, I clean, I do dishes and laundry. I try to manage the house while also trying to knock out some work every week, even though it’s been made clear to me that it’s not that big a deal. And I’m not some kind of alpha male, frothing at the bit because MAH WOMMIN makes more money than me. She supports what I’m doing, but I think she’s also just very happy to work and have someone else take care of all the other things that are just part of adult life. I do kinda miss working on cars sometimes, and having the income that came with it, but at this point I don’t even think I’d be terribly useful at that work anymore -- it’s been almost three years now, and I’m so forgetful I’m sure I’d just end up forgetting to tighten a brake caliper or something equally terrible.
So wrestling has been on the back burner. I’ve been watching, but I don’t feel like I’ve been absorbing anything. Historically, this period between WWE’s Survivor Series and the Royal Rumble are pretty low-stakes, and AEW has done its damnedest to fill that void with a big company-wide “us vs them” storyline. And now that I write that out, maybe that’s my problem with the whole Death Riders thing. It, like literally everything else in life these days, has boiled down to two sides. AEW versus the Death Riders.
I know if I post this without linking it on social media, it won’t get read. (I mean, if I’m being honest with myself it probably wouldn’t get read anyway, but that’s the whole point of telling people to read your stuff on social media, isn’t it?) And given that I’m just kinda venting and ranting, maybe that’s the way to go about this one. Put it out there so I can say to myself that I did, try to get back to writing more about things that are fun and up rather than bummers and downers. /